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Diamond's work has sometimes been distorted by rightwing factions in the US, who have suggested it shows homosexuality is optional.

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When the first edition of Strock's book was published, "a woman came up to me lesbian at one of my early speaking engagements, clutching the book and sobbing," lesbian at sex chat room in Wallersberg. And she had decided that the best thing was to kill herself on a night when she knew her husband and children were going to be out late.

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